{"id":18141,"date":"2025-12-15T03:19:10","date_gmt":"2025-12-15T03:19:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/?p=18141"},"modified":"2025-12-15T05:13:47","modified_gmt":"2025-12-15T05:13:47","slug":"thads-in-san-diego-the-full-monty-and-not-much-else","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/thads-in-san-diego-the-full-monty-and-not-much-else\/","title":{"rendered":"Thad\u2019s in San Diego: The Full Monty and Not Much Else"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"18141\" class=\"elementor elementor-18141\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f188d8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8f188d8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb027e9 bg-border e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bb027e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e50d29f main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e50d29f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4edbeba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4edbeba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Thad\u2019s in San Diego: The Full Monty and Not Much Else<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a436bcb main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a436bcb\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8102b5f elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8102b5f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">New Swinger Podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/ep-65-dirty-bucket-list-filthy-fantasies-we-may-or\/id1734698162?i=1000720832803\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Apple<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/5xxmkTZ5vBCvynIjwauoT9?si=ff481598ae3a4f3e\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Spotify<\/a><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce2b002 spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ce2b002\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe data-testid=\"embed-iframe\" style=\"border-radius:12px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/5xxmkTZ5vBCvynIjwauoT9?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e65d9ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e65d9ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full focus:outline-none scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]\" dir=\"auto\" tabindex=\"-1\" data-turn-id=\"request-68d0162c-40c0-8327-95f3-0d83b142581b-112\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-24\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\" data-turn=\"assistant\"><div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto pb-10 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] thread-sm:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] thread-lg:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\"><div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] thread-sm:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] thread-lg:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\" tabindex=\"-1\"><div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\"><div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"20c8ae0c-5ddf-44a5-b506-a87e28dfc033\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\"><div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\"><div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words light markdown-new-styling\"><p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"197\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Thad\u2019s isn\u2019t fancy, but it delivers no-frills sex club energy with fire pits, a pool, and all-male nudity rules. If you\u2019re into DIY vibes and don\u2019t mind lots of single guys, it\u2019s an experience.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/article>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb8885b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fb8885b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By: <u>Kat Swings<\/u><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6a3eef highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c6a3eef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2076c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7d2076c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p data-start=\"978\" data-end=\"1307\">If you\u2019ve ever wanted your swingers club to feel like a Kiwanis Club got converted by nudists with a Costco budget, welcome to Thad\u2019s. Tucked in a residential patch of San Diego, this long-standing sex club (swinging since 1974) delivers old-school, no-frills vibes, a lively outdoor space, and a BYOB policy &#8211; all with a firm dudes must be nude rule. It&#8217;s not a glam lifestyle club. It&#8217;s a naked backyard party with some hot tubs and house rules.<\/p><p><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\">We dish on all this and more plus give lots of questionable newbie advice on the<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration-line: underline;\">Vanilla Swingers podcast<\/span><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b19b4eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b19b4eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"956\" height=\"641\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-facade.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18152\" alt=\"Thad&#039;s San Diego facade\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-facade.png 956w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-facade-300x201.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-facade-768x515.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 956px) 100vw, 956px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c92c4cd highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c92c4cd\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f740d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54f740d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Thad's San Diego Review\ud83c\udf52<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c30a28b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c30a28b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83d\ude97\u00a0<strong>Distance\u00a0<\/strong>\u2013 10 min from downtown San Diego<\/p><p><strong>\ud83d\udd52 Hours <\/strong>\u2013 Very old school. You must call for an invitation from the hostess.<\/p><ul><li><b>Wed-Thurs &#8211; <\/b>8pm-2am<\/li><li><b>Fri-Sat &#8211; <\/b>9pm-4am<\/li><\/ul><p><strong style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\">\ud83d\udcb2 Pricing <\/strong><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\">\u2013 Unsure entirely on recent pricing. Call for details!<\/span><\/p><ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb Couple &#8211;\u00a0<\/span><br \/>Wed-Sat &#8211; ~$40-60<\/li><li><b>\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\u00a0Single Male &#8211;\u00a0<\/b><br \/>Wed-Sat &#8211; ~$40-60<\/li><li><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px; font-weight: bold;\">\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb Single Female\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px; font-weight: bold;\">&#8211;\u00a0<\/span><b><br \/><\/b><\/span>Wed-Sat &#8211; ~$40-60<\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><strong>\ud83d\udc49<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/blog\/swinger-club-reviews\/\">More Swinger Club Reviews Here<\/a>\ud83d\udc48<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cf7f5fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"cf7f5fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1026\" height=\"620\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-old-school.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18146 lazyload\" alt=\"Thad&#039;s San Diego\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-old-school.png 1026w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-old-school-300x181.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-old-school-1024x619.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-old-school-768x464.png 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1026px) 100vw, 1026px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1026px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1026\/620;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-783ebec highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"783ebec\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-393fe53 elementor-widget-laptop__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"393fe53\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div data-id=\"0174722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p>\ud83d\udc40\u00a0<strong>First Impressions<\/strong> \u2013Pulling up to Thad\u2019s feels less like arriving at a swinger club and more like pulling into your uncle\u2019s driveway for a backyard BBQ he forgot to tell you was now clothing-optional. Set on a quiet residential street in San Diego, this one-level ranch-style house with its mid-century facade could just as easily be an Elks Lodge, a Kiwanis Club, or that one neighbor\u2019s place who\u2019s always up to <em data-start=\"690\" data-end=\"701\">something<\/em>. It reminded us instantly of other downhome country spots that aren&#8217;t known for their ambiance, like Whispers and Red Rooster in Vegas or PK Social in Reno &#8211; all venues that have clearly aged in place and decided that atmosphere is optional, but action is not.<\/p><p data-start=\"920\" data-end=\"1214\">The front exterior is simple with a locked pedestrian gate that leads you down a driveway toward the backyard. There\u2019s no sign, no branding, nothing fancy to suggest what you\u2019re about to walk into. If you didn\u2019t know, you\u2019d never know. Which, to be fair, is probably the point.<\/p><p data-start=\"1520\" data-end=\"1822\">And let\u2019s talk about that website. It\u2019s giving Myspace-meets-VistaPrint, circa 1999. Pixelated flyers, janky fonts, neon text overlays\u2026 we half-expected a spinning \u201cunder construction\u201d gif. But somehow that just makes it better. It\u2019s a vibe. A terribly designed, softcore porn collage of a vibe.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9e9605d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"9e9605d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"667\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-pool-table.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18150 lazyload\" alt=\"Thad&#039;s San Diego lounge pool table\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-pool-table.png 960w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-pool-table-300x208.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-pool-table-768x534.png 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 960px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 960\/667;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f8f263b elementor-widget-laptop__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f8f263b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div data-id=\"0174722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p><b>\ud83c\udf9f\ufe0f Inside Tour &#8211;\u00a0<\/b>Once inside, you\u2019re greeted by what feels like a time capsule of California mid-century masculinity. Think faux leather booths, dim brick accents, tiled floors, and a darkened lounge area with a pool table that has definitely seen things and better days. The lighting is minimal (thankfully), and the vibe is more \u201csomeone\u2019s converted living room\u201d than \u201ccurated swingers den.\u201d\u00a0<\/p><p data-start=\"1961\" data-end=\"2320\">You\u2019ll find a locker area to stash your belongings (bring your own towel), a small bar area, and scattered seating throughout. Down a hallway, there are several small bedrooms, some labeled for couples only, some group-friendly &#8211; and while none of them are glamorous, they\u2019re private enough for play and lit low enough to keep things sexy\u2026 or at least forgiving.<\/p><p data-start=\"2322\" data-end=\"2633\">Outside is where Thad\u2019s really opens up &#8211; again we&#8217;re talking boho backyard BBQ not glam. The large backyard features fire pits, a hot tub, and plastic chairs for mingling. This is where much of the night unfolds &#8211; naked men, lingerie-clad women, couples chatting, and the occasional spontaneous blowjob happening under the stars. Just your average Friday night.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f30bb82 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"f30bb82\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1077\" height=\"763\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/embarassed-naked-man.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18147 lazyload\" alt=\"funny man caught naked embarassed\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/embarassed-naked-man.png 1077w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/embarassed-naked-man-300x213.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/embarassed-naked-man-1024x725.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/embarassed-naked-man-768x544.png 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1077px) 100vw, 1077px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1077px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1077\/763;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ec439e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5ec439e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #999999;\">\u201cAll male guests are required to be fully nude.\u201c\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c1b9f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5c1b9f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div data-id=\"0174722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p><strong>\ud83d\udc59 Dress Code<\/strong> &#8211;\u00a0Let\u2019s just say this place doesn\u2019t mess around when it comes to nudity. Men must be fully nude once inside &#8211; except for footwear. Women must strip down to lingerie or anything sexy and revealing, but no street clothes are allowed beyond the locker area.<\/p><p data-start=\"368\" data-end=\"567\">Honestly? This isn\u2019t our type of vibe. We prefer to maintain control over when \u2014 and if \u2014 we disrobe. Being required to strip down just to socialize feels a little too prescriptive for our taste.<\/p><p>\ud83c\udfb5 <strong>DJ\/Bar<\/strong> &#8211; There\u2019s a central bar area where you drop off your own bottle, and the staff (usually volunteers or regulars) will pour your drinks for you. It\u2019s free, but tipping is expected. The bar itself is simple\u2014no LED lights, no mixology wizardry\u2014but you can get your drink and go.<\/p><p data-start=\"2941\" data-end=\"3399\">On some nights, a DJ sets up either inside or outside by the fire pits. Music ranges from old-school pop to mainstream hip-hop\u2014stuff you can dance to without feeling like you\u2019re in a rave. That said, dancing isn\u2019t really the main attraction. The dance floor is minimal, and most people are milling around, mingling, or finding their next play partner. Still, the music adds a layer of energy to the space, and on a good night, it keeps things feeling lively.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c10cd53 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c10cd53\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"685\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-living-room.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18151 lazyload\" alt=\"Thad&#039;s San Diego living room stripper pole\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-living-room.png 960w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-living-room-300x214.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-living-room-768x548.png 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 960px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 960\/685;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f2863b5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f2863b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div data-id=\"0174722\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\"><p data-start=\"2941\" data-end=\"3399\">\ud83c\udf52<strong> Playrooms &#8211;\u00a0<\/strong>Thad\u2019s has a ton of play space, spread across both the main house and a separate pool house out back. Inside the main house, you\u2019ll find a variety of setups: big communal beds (some framed by giant windows for exhibitionists), small curtained nooks, and even a glory hole room. If you\u2019re into showing off or spectating, you\u2019ll be in heaven.<\/p><p data-start=\"474\" data-end=\"612\">The pool house offers even more: private rooms, voyeur-friendly group spaces, and a large central bed area where things can get wild. If privacy is more your vibe, there are plenty of closed-door rooms as well.\u00a0Upstairs is strictly couples-only. No single males allowed in that area. And this is strictly enforced.<\/p><p data-start=\"981\" data-end=\"1150\">The outdoor areas see just as much action. People play near the fire pits, on patio furniture, or in the hot tub. It\u2019s raw, it\u2019s public, and it\u2019s clearly encouraged. Some nights, the outdoor sex energy is more intense than indoors.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ca3dfb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8ca3dfb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"949\" height=\"603\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-backyard2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-18148 lazyload\" alt=\"Thad&#039;s San Diego backyard\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-backyard2.png 949w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-backyard2-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/thads-san-diego-backyard2-768x488.png 768w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 949px) 100vw, 949px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 949px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 949\/603;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6678e4 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6678e4\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b63a14a elementor-widget-laptop__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b63a14a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>\ud83d\udd25<\/b>\u00a0<strong>Vibe check<\/strong> &#8211; If Red Rooster in Vegas and PK Social in Reno had a love child after a night of regret, it might look like Thad\u2019s. It\u2019s chaotic, unapologetically naked, and not for the faint of heart. This is not your upscale, curated swinger scene &#8211; it\u2019s backyard debauchery wrapped in San Diego casual. The guests are usually friendly, but the all-nude male policy, zero-frills vibe, and the overwhelming single dude ratio means it won\u2019t be for everyone. Women will likely feel very watched. Men will likely feel&#8230; chilly. <span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">The average age skews older &#8211;\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\">mostly 40s to 60s<\/span><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">, with the occasional unicorn (usually a brave newbie) wandering through.<\/span><\/p><p data-start=\"910\" data-end=\"1070\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><strong style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\">\u26a0\ufe0f Should you go?<\/strong><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\"> \u2013 Thad\u2019s is not for everyone. If you\u2019re looking for ambiance, aesthetics, or exclusivity, steer clear. But if you\u2019re local to San Diego, don\u2019t mind the all-nude male and semi-nude female policy, and are craving a laid-back, no-judgment sex club with outdoor firepit hangs and a weirdly charming dive bar vibe &#8211; this might be your new spot.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c98ff0 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3c98ff0\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7539feb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7539feb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-con{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));--align-self:var(--container-widget-align-self,initial);--flex-shrink:0}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container{height:100%;width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty{position:relative;min-height:22px;min-width:22px}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon{position:absolute;top:0;bottom:0;left:0;right:0;margin:auto;padding:0;width:22px;height:22px}<\/style>\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c3b6ccc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c3b6ccc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated <strong>swingers podcast<\/strong> for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb8a5ca e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"cb8a5ca\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b59a73f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b59a73f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/ep-65-dirty-bucket-list-filthy-fantasies-we-may-or\/id1734698162?i=1000720832803\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"60\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Untitled-6.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-5921 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 249px; 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(Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1f0051 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a1f0051\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full\" dir=\"auto\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-36\" data-scroll-anchor=\"false\"><div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto py-5 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @[37rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @[72rem]:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\"><div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:32rem] @[34rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @[64rem]:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto flex max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 text-base gap-4 md:gap-5 lg:gap-6 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden\" tabindex=\"-1\"><div class=\"group\/conversation-turn relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\"><div class=\"relative flex-col gap-1 md:gap-3\"><div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\"><div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"0af004f9-2568-4007-8ca5-905dd6aa6276\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\"><div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\"><div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words light\"><p style=\"margin-top: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif; font-weight: bold; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); letter-spacing: 0px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thads619.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Thad&#8217;s<\/a>:<\/span> San Diego\u2019s old-school swingers house with BYOB drinks, strict nudity rules, a couples-only upstairs, and a website straight outta 1999.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/article>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c35892 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1c35892\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Swinger Lingo (check <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo\/\">Swinger Dictionary<\/a> for more!)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34337d5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"34337d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">Swingers club<\/span><\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: bold; font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">:<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> The playground of pleasure, where fantasies come to life and every night is a tantalizing adventure. A dedicated venue where individuals or couples within the swinging community gather to socialize, explore their sexuality, and engage in consensual sexual activities with other like-minded individuals.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8967309 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8967309\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">Playroom<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: bold; font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">:<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> The adult\u2019s version of a candy store, where toys, tools, and tantalizing treats await \u2013 because who says pleasure is just for kids? 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