{"id":8177,"date":"2025-05-29T01:42:29","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T01:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/?p=8177"},"modified":"2025-12-11T00:19:02","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T00:19:02","slug":"swinger-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/swinger-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Swinger Pet Peeves (And How to Avoid Them)"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8177\" class=\"elementor elementor-8177\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f188d8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8f188d8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb027e9 bg-border e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bb027e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e50d29f main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e50d29f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4edbeba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4edbeba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Swinger Pet Peeves (And How to Avoid Them)<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a436bcb main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a436bcb\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8102b5f elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8102b5f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">New Swinger Podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/swinger-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them\/id1734698162?i=1000700872496\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Apple<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/6w6feHZaowBBUNGHdxEKYO?si=18b8f5e9f9cc4b99\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Spotify<\/a><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce2b002 spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ce2b002\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/6w6feHZaowBBUNGHdxEKYO?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e65d9ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e65d9ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Think swinging is all sexy fun? Not when events start at midnight, OnlyFans creators crash the scene, or consent gets ignored. Let\u2019s break down the biggest lifestyle pet peeves\u2014and how to dodge them!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb8885b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fb8885b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By: <u>Kat Swings<\/u><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6a3eef highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c6a3eef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2076c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7d2076c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"\" data-start=\"66\" data-end=\"318\">Let\u2019s be real \u2013 swinging is\u00a0<em data-start=\"92\" data-end=\"102\">supposed<\/em>\u00a0to be fun, sexy, and drama-free. But sometimes, the lifestyle comes with a few\u2026 let\u2019s call them\u00a0<em data-start=\"199\" data-end=\"213\">frustrations<\/em>. And if you\u2019ve been in the game long enough, you\u2019ve probably run into at least\u00a0<em data-start=\"300\" data-end=\"306\">some<\/em>\u00a0of these.<\/p><p class=\"\" data-start=\"320\" data-end=\"424\">So, let\u2019s talk about the biggest swinger pet peeves\u00a0 \u2013 and more importantly, how to NOT be\u00a0<em data-start=\"408\" data-end=\"414\">that<\/em> person.\u00a0All this and more in our most recent\u00a0episode\u00a0of\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000000;\">the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration-line: underline;\">Vanilla Swingers podcast<\/span><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b19b4eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b19b4eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-8179\" alt=\"Vanilla Swingers swinger complaints\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-430x430.png 430w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/instagram-vanilla-swingers-swinging-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them-220x220.png 220w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c92c4cd highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c92c4cd\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f740d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54f740d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why Do Lifestyle Events Start So Late?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c30a28b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c30a28b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Most people complain about it, but we\u2019re all for the witching hour\u2014bring on the late-night fun! Vampires unite!! Nothing good ever happened after 2am, so bring on 2am!!! That said, we get why not everyone wants to start at vampire hours. Why do so many LS events kick off at 11 PM or later? Sure, if you\u2019re 22 and fueled by vodka and bad decisions, midnight is\u00a0<em data-start=\"287\" data-end=\"299\">prime time \u2013\u00a0<\/em>and honestly, we\u2019re here for it. But for the rest of the world? They\u2019d like to flirt, have fun, and still catch a decent night\u2019s sleep. Maybe a little before-midnight action wouldn\u2019t hurt?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-783ebec highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"783ebec\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d54234f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d54234f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The \u201cBi-For-My-Guy\u201d Phenomenon<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97b1327 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"97b1327\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin-top: 0px;\">Listen, we LOVE bisexual women. But there\u2019s a difference between actually being into women and just giving a half-hearted\u00a0<em data-start=\"1277\" data-end=\"1291\">lick and dip<\/em>\u00a0before rushing back to your man. If you\u2019re only engaging because\u00a0<em data-start=\"1357\" data-end=\"1361\">he<\/em>\u00a0wants it and not because\u00a0<em data-start=\"1387\" data-end=\"1392\">you<\/em>\u00a0want it\u2026 maybe just sit this one out. Bi-sexual women are waaaaay more fun than bi-curious and bi-comfortable. Just sayin\u2019!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6678e4 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6678e4\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f58aca5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f58aca5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">OnlyFans Creators - Real or Just for the \u2019Gram?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc226a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cc226a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A lot of people bemoan the rise of OF creators in the lifestyle\u2014how it\u2019s all about the content, the money, the clout, and not\u00a0<em data-start=\"189\" data-end=\"195\">real<\/em>\u00a0emotions. And honestly? They might have a point. There\u2019s definitely a difference between swinging for the thrill and swinging for the subscribers. BUT\u2026 if a ridiculously hot OF couple wants to play with\u00a0<em data-start=\"402\" data-end=\"406\">us<\/em>? Oh, we are\u00a0<em data-start=\"419\" data-end=\"423\">so<\/em>\u00a0down for that. Just don\u2019t ask us to sign a waiver after.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ef26594 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"ef26594\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-383de47 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"383de47\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-7683 lazyload\" alt=\"Surrounded by sex addicts in the lifestyle meme\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme-430x430.jpg 430w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/surrounded-by-sex-addicts-in-the-lifestyle-meme-220x220.jpg 220w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/640;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28af190 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"28af190\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-006825d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"006825d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">$hit Is Expensive!<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85b6cc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85b6cc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Look, we get it\u2014clubs have overhead, events take planning, and someone has to pay for all that dim lighting and velvet furniture. But\u00a0<em data-start=\"2045\" data-end=\"2063\">$100+ per person<\/em>\u00a0just to walk through the door? Add in drinks, a hotel, and a fresh wax, and suddenly, swinging is looking like a\u00a0<em data-start=\"2177\" data-end=\"2191\">luxury sport<\/em>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6008ad elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d6008ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Theme Night Overload<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bf808f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bf808f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>How many theme nights does one club\u00a0<em data-start=\"2264\" data-end=\"2270\">need<\/em>? We love a fun dress-up moment, but when\u00a0<em data-start=\"2312\" data-end=\"2319\">every<\/em>\u00a0weekend is a new costume party, it gets exhausting. 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We see you. And we see\u00a0<em data-start=\"3890\" data-end=\"3899\">through<\/em>\u00a0you. Just be honest \u2013 it\u2019ll save everyone a lot of time.\u00a0So let\u2019s cool it with the wife poaching. If a woman is in a committed couple,\u00a0<em data-start=\"4331\" data-end=\"4351\">respect the couple<\/em>. 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Instant ghosting.<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"4970\" data-end=\"5069\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"4972\" data-end=\"5069\"><strong data-start=\"4972\" data-end=\"5039\">\ud83c\udf46 Only dick pics for the guys, but full photoshoots for the women<\/strong>\u2014Why is this still a thing??<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"5070\" data-end=\"5177\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"5072\" data-end=\"5177\"><strong data-start=\"5072\" data-end=\"5108\">\ud83d\udc7b Ghosting after setting up a meet<\/strong>\u2014If you change your mind,\u00a0<em data-start=\"5134\" data-end=\"5147\">just say so<\/em>. Don\u2019t waste people\u2019s time.<\/p><\/li><li class=\"\" data-start=\"5178\" data-end=\"5344\"><p class=\"\" data-start=\"5180\" data-end=\"5344\"><strong data-start=\"5180\" data-end=\"5222\">\ud83d\ude3a\ud83d\udc20 Fake profiles and \u201cpicture collectors\u201d<\/strong>\u2014Feeld, 3Fun, and Fetlife are\u00a0<em data-start=\"5252\" data-end=\"5261\">rampant<\/em>\u00a0with these. If you\u2019re just there to chat and collect nudes, go join a subreddit.<\/p><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c98ff0 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3c98ff0\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7539feb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7539feb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-con{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));--align-self:var(--container-widget-align-self,initial);--flex-shrink:0}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container{height:100%;width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty{position:relative;min-height:22px;min-width:22px}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon{position:absolute;top:0;bottom:0;left:0;right:0;margin:auto;padding:0;width:22px;height:22px}<\/style>\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c3b6ccc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c3b6ccc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated <strong>swingers podcast<\/strong> for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb8a5ca e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"cb8a5ca\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b59a73f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b59a73f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/swinger-pet-peeves-and-how-to-avoid-them\/id1734698162?i=1000700872496\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"60\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Untitled-6.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-5921 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 249px; 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(Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4708f3b spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"4708f3b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aJOTlE1K90k?si=ZicpYl2J111DNKVP\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0871ae2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0871ae2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Swinger Lingo (check <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo\/\">Swinger Dictionary<\/a> for more!)<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1f0051 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a1f0051\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Exhibitionism<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">Putting on a show that would make Vegas blush, because why keep all that steamy action to yourself? The act of deriving sexual gratification from exposing one\u2019s own body or engaging in sexual activities in front of others, often for the purpose of arousal or thrill.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c67cfae elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c67cfae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Newbies<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">The fresh-faced newcomers to the swinging scene, eager to explore, learn, and dive headfirst into the steamy world of non-monogamy. Individuals or couples who are new to the swinging lifestyle and may be exploring it for the first time, often seeking guidance and information as they navigate this new experience.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8a8857f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8a8857f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Voyeurism:<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\">The art of peeking behind closed doors, where watching becomes the sexiest form of foreplay. 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