{"id":8815,"date":"2025-06-04T19:03:35","date_gmt":"2025-06-04T19:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/?p=8815"},"modified":"2025-12-11T00:33:28","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T00:33:28","slug":"top-7-tips-to-avoid-in-swinging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/top-7-tips-to-avoid-in-swinging\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 7 Tips to Avoid in Swinging"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8815\" class=\"elementor elementor-8815\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f188d8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8f188d8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb027e9 bg-border e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bb027e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e50d29f main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e50d29f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4edbeba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4edbeba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Top 7 Tips to Avoid in Swinging<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a436bcb main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a436bcb\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8102b5f elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8102b5f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">New Swinger Podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/swinging-rookie-mistakes-wish-i-knew-then-what-i-know-now\/id1734698162?i=1000697815772\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Apple<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/22jIaBR03BPn8Efm58qEQz?si=3b8f3984fc2c44a5\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Spotify<\/a><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce2b002 spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ce2b002\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/22jIaBR03BPn8Efm58qEQz?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e65d9ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e65d9ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Swinging is all about fun, connection, and adventure, but missteps can kill the vibe fast. Avoid the cringe with these 7 tips to steer clear of rookie mistakes and keep your swinging game strong!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb8885b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fb8885b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By: <u>Kat Swings<\/u><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6a3eef highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c6a3eef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2076c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7d2076c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>So, you\u2019re diving into the world of swinging, where adventure, connection, and plenty of spicy fun await. But, before you grab your favorite stilettos or tailored button-down, let\u2019s get one thing straight \u2013 the swinging lifestyle is as much about etiquette as it is about excitement. Yes, you want to have a great time, but you\u00a0<em>don\u2019t<\/em>\u00a0want to be the couple that people avoid like bad karaoke at a wedding.<\/p><p>To save you from awkward encounters, missteps, and eye rolls from seasoned swingers, here are the top 7 tips you should avoid like your ex\u2019s Instagram feed. Let\u2019s keep it classy, people!<\/p><p>Don\u2019t forget to check out more newbie swinger advice in our\u00a0<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\">Vanilla Swingers podcast<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b19b4eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b19b4eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-14146\" alt=\"Things to avoid in swinging\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/peeping-tom-meme2-1536x864.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c92c4cd highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c92c4cd\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f740d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54f740d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Skip the Research<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c30a28b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c30a28b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Swinging is not just a \u201clet\u2019s wing it\u201d type of adventure\u2014it\u2019s a whole vibe with its own rules, etiquette, and culture. Walking into a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/what-to-wear-to-a-swingers-club-from-sexy-to-subtle\/\">swingers\u2019 club<\/a>\u00a0or party without knowing the basics is like showing up to a black-tie gala in yoga pants. Trust me, it\u2019s not cute.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Read up! Blogs,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\">swinger podcasts<\/a>, and forums are your new best friends. Learn the lingo, understand the dynamics, and know what to expect. Being informed makes you look confident and approachable.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-783ebec highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"783ebec\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d54234f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d54234f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Assume Everyone\u2019s Interested<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97b1327 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"97b1327\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Look, swinging isn\u2019t an all-you-can-eat swinger buffet where you grab whatever catches your eye. Consent is\u00a0<em>king<\/em>\u00a0(or queen), and assuming someone is into you just because they smiled is a rookie mistake.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Be polite, start a conversation, and gauge interest. If they\u2019re not feeling it, thank them for chatting and move on gracefully. Swinging is about mutual attraction, not pressure.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6678e4 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6678e4\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f58aca5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f58aca5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Forget to Discuss Boundaries (Beforehand!)<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc226a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cc226a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Nothing kills the mood faster than one partner diving into the deep end while the other is clinging to the edge, wide-eyed and panicking. Swinging requires clear boundaries\u00a0<em>before<\/em>\u00a0the action begins.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Have a heart-to-heart with your partner about what you\u2019re comfortable with\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/soft-play-vs-full-swap-decoding-the-lingo-for-newbies\/\">soft swap<\/a>,\u00a0full swap, or just dipping your toes into the scene.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28af190 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"28af190\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-006825d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"006825d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Be the Overeager Party Crasher<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85b6cc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85b6cc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We get it, you\u2019re excited! But barging into conversations, lingering too long, or coming on too strong is a one-way ticket to awkward-ville. Swinging is about vibes, and desperation isn\u2019t one of them.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Take it slow, mingle naturally, and let connections happen organically. Confidence is sexy, but overbearing energy? Not so much.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e9ae5ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e9ae5ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Neglect Hygiene and Presentation<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43b62c2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"43b62c2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This one should be obvious, but here we are. Swingers\u2019 clubs and parties are not casual Friday at the office. Showing up looking (or smelling) like you just rolled out of bed is a major faux pas.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Dress to impress, shower like your life depends on it, and pack a little swinger\u2019s kit\u2014mints, deodorant, and other essentials. A little effort goes a long way in setting the right tone.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-521e025 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"521e025\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Ignore Club or Event Rules<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e5895c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0e5895c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Every club or party has its own rules, from dress codes to phone policies to no-means-no policies. Ignoring these is the quickest way to get a one-way ticket out the door.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Read the rules and respect them. Whether it\u2019s leaving your phone in a locker or waiting for the undressing song (looking at you,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/rome-swinger-clubs-flirt-club-review\/\">Flirt Club in Rome<\/a>!), following the guidelines shows respect for the space and the people in it.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78b4af6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"78b4af6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Don\u2019t Forget to Communicate Afterward<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40b25ee elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"40b25ee\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>You had a night of fun, but what happens next? Skipping the post-play chat with your partner can lead to bottled-up feelings, misunderstandings, or jealousy.<\/p><p><strong>What to do instead:<\/strong><br \/>Debrief! Share what you loved, anything that felt off, and how you\u2019re feeling overall. 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