{"id":8925,"date":"2025-06-04T21:43:10","date_gmt":"2025-06-04T21:43:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/?p=8925"},"modified":"2025-12-11T02:18:35","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T02:18:35","slug":"mf4mf-mfm-mmf-alphabet-soup-of-swinging-acronyms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/mf4mf-mfm-mmf-alphabet-soup-of-swinging-acronyms\/","title":{"rendered":"MF4MF, MFM, MMF: Alphabet Soup of Swinging Acronyms!"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8925\" class=\"elementor elementor-8925\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f188d8 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8f188d8\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb027e9 bg-border e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"bb027e9\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e50d29f main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e50d29f\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4edbeba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4edbeba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">MF4MF, MFM, MMF: Alphabet Soup of Swinging Acronyms!<\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a436bcb main-head e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a436bcb\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8102b5f elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8102b5f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">New Swinger Podcast | <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/why-i-love-swinging-top-10-benefits-of-the-lifestyle\/id1734698162?i=1000683426435\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Apple<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/5Yx46oiFyAI6OlPN4bN6Mj?si=ef916d21dd754fa6\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Spotify<\/a><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce2b002 spotifyplayer elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ce2b002\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/5Yx46oiFyAI6OlPN4bN6Mj?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" class=\"lazyload\" data-load-mode=\"1\"><\/iframe>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e65d9ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e65d9ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>Swinging acronyms like MF4MF, MFM, and MMF can feel like a whole new language. Don\u2019t worry, Kat\u2019s here to decode the lingo and save you from any awkward surprises\u2014because those letters matter!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb8885b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fb8885b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">By: <u>Kat Swings<\/u><\/h5>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6a3eef highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c6a3eef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d2076c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7d2076c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Let\u2019s be honest, when you first dive into the world of swinging acronyms, it feels like you need a Duolingo course just to keep up. Suddenly, you\u2019re deciphering a new language where one misplaced letter could change the entire vibe of your evening. What the hell does MFM or MMF even mean? Is there a cheat sheet? And then someone casually drops, \u201cOh, just make sure you watch where you put the M, or you\u2019ll go from straight to bi in no time!\u201d Cue the panic. You didn\u2019t sign up for an accidental sexuality crisis\u2014you just wanted a good time! But don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m here to decode the madness and save you from any unexpected surprises.<\/p><p>Don\u2019t forget to check out more newbie swinger advice in our\u00a0<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/\">Vanilla Swingers podcast<\/a><\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b19b4eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b19b4eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"906\" height=\"515\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/alphabet-soup-swinging-acronyms.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-8927\" alt=\"MFM MFFM swinging acronyms alphabet soup graphic\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/alphabet-soup-swinging-acronyms.png 906w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/alphabet-soup-swinging-acronyms-300x171.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/alphabet-soup-swinging-acronyms-768x437.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 906px) 100vw, 906px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c92c4cd highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c92c4cd\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f740d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54f740d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Basics: MF4MF, MF4M, MF4F<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c30a28b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c30a28b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>So, before you go fumbling through your first profile or awkwardly asking someone, \u201cWait, what\u2019s an MF4F?\u201d (cringe!), let\u2019s break it down. These are the most common acronyms couples use to outline what they\u2019re searching for. Spoiler: it\u2019s all about finding the right vibe and the right dynamic to make the night unforgettable. Here\u2019s the scoop:<\/p><ul><li><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc95 \ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MF4MF<\/span><\/strong>: A male-female couple looking for another male-female couple. Think of this as the classic couple swap\u2014double date vibes with a spicy twist. The focus is on mutual chemistry between everyone involved, and yes, that includes\u00a0<em>all four<\/em>\u00a0people. No pressure, though!<br \/><br \/><\/li><li><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc95<strong>\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb<\/strong>\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MF4M<\/span><\/strong>: A male-female couple seeking a single male. This dynamic often plays into the hotwife or stag\/vixen fantasy, where the couple invites an extra dash of testosterone to the mix. The spotlight is on the lady, and the gents work together to keep her satisfied.<br \/><br \/><\/li><li><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc95<strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\u00a0<\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MF4F<\/span><\/strong>: A male-female couple on the hunt for a unicorn\u2014aka, a single female. This is probably the most sought-after dynamic in the lifestyle, with couples looking to add a little extra feminine energy to the equation. Pro tip: treat the unicorn like the treasure she is, not a conquest, and you\u2019ll have a better shot at making it happen.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-783ebec highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"783ebec\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d54234f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d54234f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2 Guys, 1 Girl Threesome: Mind Where You Put the M<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-97b1327 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"97b1327\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Now we\u2019re diving into the male-male-female threesomes, and this is where things get\u00a0<em>real<\/em>\u00a0cheeky. Rule number one:\u00a0<strong>mind where you put the M.<\/strong>\u00a0Seriously. The difference between MFM and MMF could completely change the dynamic\u2014and your comfort level. You can go from straight to bi in the blink of an eye!<\/p><ul><li><strong>\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb MFM<\/strong>: Two males, one female, and all eyes are on her (Kat\u2019s personal favorite!). This is the safe zone for straight dudes\u2014no awkward sword crossing here. The guys are strictly teammates, working together to make one lucky lady feel like an absolute queen. May have incidental contact, with things like DP or DVP but that\u2019s par for the course.<br \/><br \/><\/li><li><strong>\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb MMF<\/strong>: Same trio, but now the men are bi or bi-curious and open to getting in on the action with each other. Didn\u2019t watch where you put that M? Well, hello,\u00a0<em>bi-surprise<\/em>! If you\u2019re not into guy-on-guy interactions, tread carefully.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d018862 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d018862\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"709\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fmf-meme.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-8928 lazyload\" alt=\"FMF threesome meme\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fmf-meme.png 640w, https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fmf-meme-271x300.png 271w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 640px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 640\/709;\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6678e4 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6678e4\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f58aca5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f58aca5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2 Girls, 1 Guy Threesome: Every Guy's Fantasy<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc226a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cc226a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Now let\u2019s dive into female-female-male threesomes\u2014every guy\u2019s fantasy, right? And when it comes to making this dream come true, it often involves the mythical creature of the lifestyle: the unicorn. That\u2019s right, a single woman who\u2019s confident, fun, and totally down for a sexy trio. But here\u2019s the thing: not all FFM setups are the same. It could be a polite \u201cladies take turns\u201d FMF vibe or a full-on steamy FFM free-for-all where everyone\u2019s into everyone.\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><strong><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb<strong><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb<\/strong><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">FMF<\/span><\/strong>: Two females, one male, but the women are straight and don\u2019t interact with each other. This is the PG version of a threesome \u2013 polite, coordinated, and all about taking turns with Mr. Lucky. Think sensual relay race, but no baton passing between the gals.<br \/><br \/><\/li><li><strong><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb<strong><strong>\ud83d\udc67\ud83c\udffb<\/strong><\/strong>\ud83d\udc66\ud83c\udffb<\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">FFM<\/span><\/strong>: Two females, one male, but this time, it\u2019s an all-out free-for-all (Kat &amp; Leo\u2019s favorite!)\u00a0The women are into each other, the guy\u2019s diving in wherever he fits, and it\u2019s a steamy, \u201cone for all and all for one\u201d situation. Basically, the naughty version of a Three Musketeers fantasy.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-28af190 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"28af190\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-006825d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"006825d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Other Handy Acronyms<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85b6cc0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85b6cc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Now that you\u2019ve mastered the basics, it\u2019s time to level up your swinging vocabulary. The lifestyle is full of acronyms that can make you feel like you\u2019re cracking a secret code\u2014like, is this a swinger profile or an escape room puzzle? And while some are practical, others get downright spicy. These little combos of letters are doing a lot of heavy lifting, whether they\u2019re setting boundaries, signaling preferences, or hinting at some wild fantasies.<\/p><p>Ready to dive into the next level of lifestyle lingo? Here are a few more acronyms you\u2019ll come across, from the practical to the playful:<\/p><ul><li><strong>NSA<\/strong>: No Strings Attached. Play is purely for fun\u2014no feelings, no drama, no relationship goals.<\/li><li><strong>BBW<\/strong>: Big Beautiful Woman. A confident plus-sized queen who owns the room and herself.<\/li><li><strong>DDF<\/strong>: Drug and Disease Free. A must-have in profiles to signal health and safety.<\/li><li><strong>LS<\/strong>: Lifestyle. Short, sweet, and self-explanatory\u2014it\u2019s everywhere.<\/li><li><strong>DP<\/strong>: Double Penetration. One lady, two gents filling her simultaneously\u2014an adventurous setup for those who love to push boundaries.<\/li><li><strong>DVP<\/strong>: Double Vaginal Penetration. 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They cut through the small talk and get straight to the point, whether you\u2019re browsing profiles, texting potential playmates, or chatting in a club.<\/p><p>But don\u2019t get too caught up in the alphabet soup. Swinging is about connection, chemistry, and communication. Whether you\u2019re MF4MF or MFM-curious, the key to a great experience is making sure everyone\u2019s on the same page.<\/p><p>Now that you\u2019ve got your swinging decoder ring, go forth and decode with confidence. And remember, the most important acronym of all is\u00a0<strong>F-U-N.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\ud83d\udc8b\u00a0Happy swinging!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c98ff0 highlight-text e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3c98ff0\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7539feb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7539feb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.23.0 - 23-07-2024 *\/\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-con{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));--align-self:var(--container-widget-align-self,initial);--flex-shrink:0}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container{height:100%;width:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty{position:relative;min-height:22px;min-width:22px}.e-con-inner>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon,.e-con>.elementor-widget-spacer.elementor-widget-empty .elementor-widget-empty-icon{position:absolute;top:0;bottom:0;left:0;right:0;margin:auto;padding:0;width:22px;height:22px}<\/style>\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c3b6ccc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c3b6ccc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated <strong>swingers podcast<\/strong> for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb8a5ca e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-child\" data-id=\"cb8a5ca\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b59a73f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b59a73f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/why-i-love-swinging-top-10-benefits-of-the-lifestyle\/id1734698162?i=1000683426435\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"249\" height=\"60\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.vanillaswingers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Untitled-6.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-5921 lazyload\" alt=\"\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 249px; 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font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">:<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">An acronym for \u201cFriends with Benefits,\u201d denoting a casual relationship where individuals engage in sexual activities without the commitment of a romantic partnership. The perfect blend of friendship and friskiness, because why limit yourself to just one type of fun?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c67cfae elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c67cfae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">ONS<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold; font-family: Poppins, sans-serif;\">:<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">An acronym for \u201cOne Night Stand.\u201d When couples decide to dip their toes into the swinging pool for a single night of spicy fun. 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