Vanilla Swingers – A swinger podcast for newbies, by newbies in the lifestyle

Podcast Episodes

Here’s your roadmap to every podcast episode – organized by category so you can binge from the beginning or jump right into your favorite topics.

LIFESTYLE 101
Episode 76 Vanilla Swingers | Couple Swap Virginity Lost… in a Barbie World

From soft swap to “welp, we did it,” here’s how our full-swap unfolded.

Jealousy Lesbian Edition... Vanilla Swingers

From freakouts to compersion - and did Leo just have lesbian sex?

Kat Does P0rn (Boy, Was it Worth the Wait)

Sextober delivers - Plush Flesh & Fantasy, MFM drought finally dead.

3Fun vs Feeld - Vanilla Swingers Podcast

Feeld vs 3Fun, and why modern dating is a dumpster fire.

Playrooms for Dummies - Vanilla Swingers Podcast

Navigate playrooms with ease - your Playrooms for Dummies guide.

Episode 69 Vanilla Swingers | From Soft Swap to Full: Our Wildest Episode Yet

We spill how it happened, what changed, and why we're not going back.

Episode 68 Vanilla Swingers | New to Swinging? Here's How Not to Suck

The crash course every newbie couple needs, but not take seriously 'til too late.

Episode 67 Vanilla Swingers | Fair Is Fair... Why Compersion Only Goes So Far

Let’s unpack the fine line between compersion and chaos.

Episode 66 Vanilla Swingers | Hot Takes from the Lifestyle: Swinging's Dirty Little Secrets

Serving up brutally honest opinions about swinging's dirty little secrets.

Episode 65 Vanilla Swingers | Dirty Bucket List: Filthy Fantasies We May or May Not Have

The wildest, weirdest, and most WTF-worthy bucket list items in the lifestyle.

Episode 62 Vanilla Swingers | So You Met a Unicorn - Don’t F*ck It Up

Here’s how to not screw it up (and maybe make her stay for brunch).

Episode 61 Vanilla Swingers | Why the Lifestyle Sucks: From NRE to WTF?!?!!

Spilling the raw, unfiltered truth about when the lifestyle sucks.

Episode 60 Vanilla Swingers | Feeld Review: The Horny Dating App for Threesomes, Couples & Unicorns

Curious about Feeld? Our deep dive swiping, sexting, and threesomes

Episode 59 Vanilla Swingers | Boo! You Got Ghosted. Now What? Here’s How to Handle Ghosting

How to survive the ghosting game with your sexy dignity intact.

Episode 58 Vanilla Swingers | Single Male Bible: In Search of the Manicorn

Whether you're hunting single guys or are one, this is your holy grail.

Episode 57 Vanilla Swingers | Kasidie Review: Good, Bad, and Ugly of This Swinger App

Outdated? Maybe. Still the best swinger app out there? Absolutely.

Episode 56 Vanilla Swingers | Swipe Right! Swinger App Do’s, Don’ts & Dealbreakers

Your cheat sheet to navigating Feeld, Kasidie & more - minus the cringe.

Episode 55 Vanilla Swingers | Couples vs Singles: Threesomes, Foursomes & Facepalms

Couples bring complexity, singles bring sexy clarity.

Episode 52 Vanilla Swingers | Swinger Boundaries: Where to Bust a Nut, Who Can Kiss, and WTF Is a Veto?

Talk about where to cum, who can kiss, and WTF is a veto?

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We’re tackling mental blocks, anxiety boners, and performance pressure.

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Let’s talk MFF threesomes, unicorn etiquette, and how not to blow it.

Episode 49 Vanilla Swingers | MFM Threesomes: How to Make Her the Star

How to find your third, set the vibe and make her the star.

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Late-night starts to OF creators and jackhammer dudes, top pet peeves.

Episode 46 Vanilla Swingers | What is the Swingermoon? Kiss'n'Tell Our Honeymoon of Swinging

Speedrunning the lifestyle and crossing off bucket list fantasies.

Episode 45 Vanilla Swingers | Swinging Rookie Mistakes: Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now

New to swinging? Here’s everything we know now we wish we knew then.

Episode 43 Vanilla Swingers | Why Threesomes Are The GOAT: Ménage à Trois, Yee-Haw!

Our fave double helix dynamic - MFM, MFF, MFM, back and forth.

Episode 41 Vanilla Swingers | You Might Be A Swinger If... Top Signs You Swing

Are you a swinger? Spilling all the funny signs you might be a swinger.

Episode 40 Vanilla Swingers | Hooked on Swinging, High on NRE (New Relationship Energy)

NRE is the addictive high that fuels swinging but don’t let it burn you.

Episode 39 Vanilla Swingers | Hot Wives, Meh Husbands: The 9 to 5 Swinger Paradox

Hot, fit, and insufferably picky? Swinging isn’t a VIP club.

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Discover the top 10 benefits of swinging and why we love swinging!

Episode 36 Vanilla Swingers | Swipe Left: Red Flags in the Lifestyle That Scream Run!

We’re spilling the tea on red flags that scream, run, don’t walk!

Episode 30 Vanilla Swingers | Ready to Swing? We Tackle the Mojo Sexual Compatibility Quiz - Live!

Laugh as we take the Mojo Upgrade sex compatibility quiz, live!

Episode 28 Vanilla Swingers | Unicorn Magic: Threesome or Throuple?

Our first throuple and the enchanting world of the mythical unicorn.

Episode 26 Vanilla Swingers | Sex, Drugs & Rock 'n Roll: The Real Truth on Drugs in Swinging

Buckle up as we spill the truth about drugs in the lifestyle!

Episode 24 Vanilla Swingers | From Newbies to Naughty: Our First Year Swinging In Review

Get ready for a wild ride! It’s our one-year anniversary,

Episode 22 Vanilla Swingers | Exhibitionism & Voyeurism: The Sizzling Gateway to Swinging

Exhibitionism and voyeurism are the gateway drug to swinging!

Episode 21 Vanilla Swingers | Swing Smarter, Not Harder: Tips & Tricks for Winning the Social Swinging Game

How to flirt, find the best deal, MFM tips, and more social swing advice.

Episode 19 Vanilla Swingers | Swinging Dynamics: Playground Politics of the Kinkiest Social Dance

How to charm couples, ghost politely, and turn scarcity into allure.

Episode 17 Vanilla Swingers | Social Swinging: How to Play the Game, Part 1

How to play the game, what to say, and how to open up a couple.

Episode 15 Vanilla Swingers | Swinging Pitfalls Exposed: What They Don't Tell You

Drama, sticky pitfalls, and surprises that come with sharing your partner.

Episode 10 Vanilla Swingers | Swingers Club Secrets

Everything you needed to know about what to expect at a swingers club.

Episode 9 Vanilla Swingers | Debunking Squirting Myths: Is It Pee or Not? More Importantly Is It Hot or Not?

Is it pee or not? More importantly is it hot or not? Wet world of squirting.

Episode 7 Vanilla Swingers | Swinging 101

Top rules every newbie swinger needs to know before they say Baby!

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How far a newbie can go before jumping to a soft or full swap.

Episode 4 Vanilla Swingers | Why Is Girl-on-Girl Hot, Guy-on-Guy Not? Contradictions of the Lifestyle

Contradictions and glaring hypocrisies found in the lifestyle…

Episode 3 Vanilla Swingers | How Addictive Is New Relationship Energy in Swinging?

Swinging can be one helluva potent elixir, THE best kept swinger secret.

Episode 1 Vanilla Swingers | What Is a Swinger? And Gatekeeping in the Lifestyle

What IS a swinger? Who gets to be a part of the secret underground club?

Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!